“Because I simply didn’t like her in that way there’s a pretty thick line between friend and more than friends material lmao. Because I can be friends with just about anybody whose a good person, but I wont date you just because you’re a good person there has to be similar goals, lifestyle, personality plays a far bigger factor in terms of what sets them off or what they enjoy doing for fun.” – M. Rand
I’ve heard plenty of talk about this guy being put in the friend zone or “awe bro, she said you’re her bff, friend zoned!” but it isn’t too often that there is talk about a girl who has been friend zoned. Real talk, it happens! Even elitedaily.com had an article on it where I first learned of “bro-zoned.” It was after reading a few articles one night (randomly) that I realized, awe shit, I’ve super been bro-zoned.
“Usually if she’s way more on it than me. Like if she’s saying things she wish she had a boyfriend for and I don’t see us like that I’m going to try to friend zone that. ” – G. Guess
Looking back over my young 23 years of life, I’ve heard it all from “you’d make the perfect wife” to “if I’m not with anybody and you’re not with anybody when we’re like 33 we should get together.” I’ve been the homie (damn bro) that guys told everything to; the chicks they’ve dealt with past, present and next, family issues, dreams and aspirations, y’all get me. Yet even with all that I gave –advice, support, space, etc- I’m never thought to be in the running. So I’m basically like that nice guy that has everything going for him, except moving out of the friend zone, but why? I’m not needy or overbearing. I’m not crazy emotional. Maybe I’m too disconnected? Hmm.
“I did not see her like that and some girls just come on too strong, always on me, always want me around them or always calling and texting me; like be cool, don’t be all up on me.” – R. Broadnax
WRITTEN BY: VIOLA CONSTANCE | @Voila_its_Viola