FOMO vs JOMO

FOMO - Fear Of Missing Out. 

JOMO = Joy of Missing Out

Lately I've been going through many different changes including taking a path for my own happiness. I've noticed that I've been saying NO way more and not feeling any guilt about it, and you know what, it feels really good! I'm not saying I was that person always saying yes, but if I felt I was going to miss out on something you better believe I've was making rearrangements to do whatever it was I probably didn't really care for. I'm finding that while, yes I'm missing out on certain things with certain people, I'm happier when I'm living for me, my happiness and from my heart. That may sound selfish, but I am at that stage in life where damnit, I'm young, I've done everything "a good child" was supposed to do, I've always thought about and put others first so it's my time to live.

In the midst of these changes, a fellow lady HustlHer (if you have no idea what I'm talking about check out the HustlHersLounge), posted this video and it spoke perfectly to me. I thought I'd share it with you all.

Melissa Opie is a life coach who experienced first-hand how a woman's insecurities can stop her from truly living. When she saw how much of the world thrives off of women's insecurities, she had to do something to change it. So she became a life coach.

She loves to work with smart, real, and quirky people. Her modus operandi consists of helping women slay self-sabotage, find their life's purpose, and inject more peace into their chaotic lives.

She can be found on Instagram as @embodyyoursoul

Get her free gift {A Course In Confidence} here: www.melissaopie.com

WRITTEN BY: VIOLA CONSTANCE | @Voila_its_Viola